Threads like this have convinced me to start my own thread about why I left Christianity for deism.
http://www.theologyweb.com/campus/sh...-am-an-atheist
http://www.theologyweb.com/campus/sh...nversion-Story
The summary for those who are too lazy to read a few paragraphs is that I became unconvinced that God communicates with people because what I had thought was God communicating with me turned out to not be God.
The Story
I was raised by a Christian family, with my dad being a Christian universalist and my mom and step-dad having more conservative but not fundamentalist views. As a 14-year-old I felt God was calling me to fast. Not just for a day, but for a week, like my step-dad had done (but he was in his 20's at the time). Being relatively tall and thin, this "calling" was highly concerning to me. I felt like God was trying to force me to do it. He seemed to be a sort of bully who would make people do things they didn't want to do, because that was how we were to deny the world, take up our cross, and follow Jesus. I would instead get into a routine where every two weeks at school I would take a day and instead of eating lunch with friends, I'd read the Bible in the school library. This pattern continued for two years or so. Then near the end of Lent after year one I gave up food for two days. About a month after that, I read something on the religious views on the creation vs. evolution debate, and wondered if my theistic evolution position was unchristian. In the past I'd also wondered about Christianity and homosexuality, but I simply chose to not have an opinion on that issue. I couldn't bring myself to reject the Bible or to feel that my family members were doing something wrong. However, as someone who likes science, I felt I could not reject the idea that the Earth and Universe are billions of years old. Anyway, I suddenly wondered: What if Christianity is all wrong and there is no God? And Why would God put me through this suffering that seemed to be all his fault? I was scared of leaving religion however, because I didn't want God to be real and punish me. So kept up my praying, Bible reading, and fasting for another year. I was someone who wanted to believe and was scared of the repercussions of not believing, but someone who couldn't bring themselves to fully believe. I tried to think of the Bible as a metaphor and adopt more theologically liberal views. For a while I considered the Holy Spirit to just be one's conscience, for example. But 1 Corinthians 15:13-19 (about how Christianity is worthless without the resurrection of Jesus), made me think the metaphorical position was untenable. After Lent number two and not eating for three days, I realized trying to believe wasn't going to work. I had felt no spiritual connection during that time. So I gave up the lunchtime fasts soon after, but kept up Bible reading and praying for a few more months, more to keep my bedtime routine than anything else. During this time I gradually came to the realization that I could not easily believe in any god that interacts with the Universe, because that God cannot seem to communicate effectively with people. So what was I left with? A creator, who does not seem to communicate with its followers/members of creation, or interact with the Universe, a consequentialist system of ethics, and an uncertainty about ideas such as materialism. Now, I am almost 18, and a deist, yet I still go to church because I haven't told my parents I'm no longer Christian, and I don't want them to get mad at me. While I do still acknowledge that religion can help people behave morally, I'm pretty skeptical of people saying their god is so big and powerful and unbelievers are going to hell.
The Reasons
The first reason for leaving Christianity is described in the story, and mentions the seeming unreliability of God to accurately communicate with his followers. Communication from God seems to be limited to what notions the believer already has of God. See the story of Hong Xiuquan and the Taiping Rebellion for more on the matter. That being said, I know misunderstanding thoughts as divine communication does not disprove the possibility of divine communication. But it has made me mistrust anything my brain might try to imagine came from God, and it makes me skeptical of others who supposedly receive divine communication, because I know they could be as confused as I was. As mentioned above, different people seem to get different contradictory divine revelations, so God seems to be a rather inefficient or ineffective communicator. I have also learned about the problem of evil (which I think is the best argument against an omnipotent, omniscient, and omnibenevolent god). There is also the similar problem of hell (which could be solved by universalism, if only it were biblically supported). Then there is the fact that there is scholarly debate about the historical accuracy of the Pentateuch and the stories about the Kingdom of Israel. There is also the fact that the Gospels were written decades after Jesus' death. I'm not sure if these points are self explanatory, or if you want me to elaborate on them more.
Most of the apologetics debate would probably revolve around if the reasons I gave for leaving are valid reasons. I doubt my deconversion story is going to deconvert any more people than seer's conversion story converted. I included it for more of a background as to how I got the beliefs I have today.
http://www.theologyweb.com/campus/sh...-am-an-atheist
http://www.theologyweb.com/campus/sh...nversion-Story
The summary for those who are too lazy to read a few paragraphs is that I became unconvinced that God communicates with people because what I had thought was God communicating with me turned out to not be God.
The Story
I was raised by a Christian family, with my dad being a Christian universalist and my mom and step-dad having more conservative but not fundamentalist views. As a 14-year-old I felt God was calling me to fast. Not just for a day, but for a week, like my step-dad had done (but he was in his 20's at the time). Being relatively tall and thin, this "calling" was highly concerning to me. I felt like God was trying to force me to do it. He seemed to be a sort of bully who would make people do things they didn't want to do, because that was how we were to deny the world, take up our cross, and follow Jesus. I would instead get into a routine where every two weeks at school I would take a day and instead of eating lunch with friends, I'd read the Bible in the school library. This pattern continued for two years or so. Then near the end of Lent after year one I gave up food for two days. About a month after that, I read something on the religious views on the creation vs. evolution debate, and wondered if my theistic evolution position was unchristian. In the past I'd also wondered about Christianity and homosexuality, but I simply chose to not have an opinion on that issue. I couldn't bring myself to reject the Bible or to feel that my family members were doing something wrong. However, as someone who likes science, I felt I could not reject the idea that the Earth and Universe are billions of years old. Anyway, I suddenly wondered: What if Christianity is all wrong and there is no God? And Why would God put me through this suffering that seemed to be all his fault? I was scared of leaving religion however, because I didn't want God to be real and punish me. So kept up my praying, Bible reading, and fasting for another year. I was someone who wanted to believe and was scared of the repercussions of not believing, but someone who couldn't bring themselves to fully believe. I tried to think of the Bible as a metaphor and adopt more theologically liberal views. For a while I considered the Holy Spirit to just be one's conscience, for example. But 1 Corinthians 15:13-19 (about how Christianity is worthless without the resurrection of Jesus), made me think the metaphorical position was untenable. After Lent number two and not eating for three days, I realized trying to believe wasn't going to work. I had felt no spiritual connection during that time. So I gave up the lunchtime fasts soon after, but kept up Bible reading and praying for a few more months, more to keep my bedtime routine than anything else. During this time I gradually came to the realization that I could not easily believe in any god that interacts with the Universe, because that God cannot seem to communicate effectively with people. So what was I left with? A creator, who does not seem to communicate with its followers/members of creation, or interact with the Universe, a consequentialist system of ethics, and an uncertainty about ideas such as materialism. Now, I am almost 18, and a deist, yet I still go to church because I haven't told my parents I'm no longer Christian, and I don't want them to get mad at me. While I do still acknowledge that religion can help people behave morally, I'm pretty skeptical of people saying their god is so big and powerful and unbelievers are going to hell.
The Reasons
The first reason for leaving Christianity is described in the story, and mentions the seeming unreliability of God to accurately communicate with his followers. Communication from God seems to be limited to what notions the believer already has of God. See the story of Hong Xiuquan and the Taiping Rebellion for more on the matter. That being said, I know misunderstanding thoughts as divine communication does not disprove the possibility of divine communication. But it has made me mistrust anything my brain might try to imagine came from God, and it makes me skeptical of others who supposedly receive divine communication, because I know they could be as confused as I was. As mentioned above, different people seem to get different contradictory divine revelations, so God seems to be a rather inefficient or ineffective communicator. I have also learned about the problem of evil (which I think is the best argument against an omnipotent, omniscient, and omnibenevolent god). There is also the similar problem of hell (which could be solved by universalism, if only it were biblically supported). Then there is the fact that there is scholarly debate about the historical accuracy of the Pentateuch and the stories about the Kingdom of Israel. There is also the fact that the Gospels were written decades after Jesus' death. I'm not sure if these points are self explanatory, or if you want me to elaborate on them more.
Most of the apologetics debate would probably revolve around if the reasons I gave for leaving are valid reasons. I doubt my deconversion story is going to deconvert any more people than seer's conversion story converted. I included it for more of a background as to how I got the beliefs I have today.
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