Thread: Is it ok to hit or beat wives ?
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June 4th 2012, 06:48 AM #421
Re: Is it ok to hit or beat wives ?
Point taken, Cerebrum. Believers need to learn how to distinguish btwn muslims and their religious ideology-islam. The former are people and human beings with all kinds of ups and downs, struggles, 'triumphs' and defeats.
But the latter is a utterlytotalitarian ideology that seeks to govern each and every area of human life - public as well as private, 'secular' and spiitual, mosque AND the state! islam is both religious and political (& juridical ie.sharia law). Their big problem is they haven't found a way to reconcile archaic and out-dated sharia laws and 'islamic legislation' with the realities of today's world. To many of their 'scholars' or ulema, for islamic society to go forward is actually by going backwards to the time & norms of the 'golden age of islam' (era of the first 4 caliphs).
So, if moreto and/or another sister over here, were to fight back the 'honorable beating' meted out to her by her quran-obeying husband, with a cast-iron skillet, no less, on the upside of his head! This is considered a gravely serious SIN in islam.
She cannot and should not fight back her abusive and obedient muslim husband, he doing the honorable thing, and she should not prevent him from discharging his spiritual duty, albeit by giving her a beating! To resist and/or fight him back, might just entail her tasting hell-fire, subsequently.
And Sparko, thanks for sharing that saluting Smiley with us, it is so cute...!
Regards, Dan.
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June 4th 2012, 01:46 PM #422
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Oh, I think his avoidance of the treatment of women I asked him in Islam and the clear examples I produced that show the horrible treatment women, in general, get over there and him ignoring it does say a lot. As I pointed out to him (and he ignored it), when one of the liberal Islamic countries has a story (on one of its news sources at that) about a woman that was raped by two guys and she gets charged for sexual misconduct and the guys get away with little more than a slap on the wrist should tell us just what Islam is all about.
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June 6th 2012, 09:12 AM #423
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June 6th 2012, 09:18 AM #424
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Amigo,
1. Learn how to spell.
2. This area of theologyweb is about ISLAM and not Christianity. If you wish to discuss Christian wife beating, then you will have to start a new thread in the appropriate area. we will no longer tolerate you derailing this thread.
3. Either defend Islam wife-beating, show us that it is false, or go away. No other tactic will be tolerated. Your posts will be removed and you will be moderated for derailing the thread. This is your LAST Warning (and just in case you think I am kidding, I am the head moderator of this area and can and will enforce the rules here)
The ball is back in your court:
Either answer this accusation or leave the thread:
"Men have authority over women because God has made the one superior to the other, and because they spend their wealth to maintain them. Good women are obedient. They guard their unseen parts because God has guarded them. As for those from whom you fear disobedience, admonish them and send them to beds apart and beat them. Then if they obey you, take no further action against them. Surely God is high, supreme." (Dawood's translation of the Koran, Quran, 4:34)
So is it OK for husbands to beat their wives in Islam?
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June 6th 2012, 09:25 AM #425
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June 6th 2012, 10:35 AM #430
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amigoxp, just ANSWER the question that this thread is about, and then we can go from there. You keep getting modded, and you will eventually be banned.
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June 6th 2012, 04:56 PM #431
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Whew. That's a lot of pointless arguing amigoxp. You have no power here. That rests with the moderators.
If you are unable to defend the 4:34 quote with teachings from Islam, then you have no defense either.Last edited by Tanakh Keeper; June 6th 2012 at 04:57 PM.
Deut 10:12 And now, O Israel, what does the Lord, your G-d, demand of you? Only to fear the Lord, your G-d, to walk in all His ways and to love Him, and to worship the Lord, your G-d, with all your heart and with all your soul, 13. to keep the commandments of the Lord and His statutes, which I command you this day, for your good.
Micah 6:6. With what shall I come before the Lord, bow before the Most High G-d? Shall I come before Him with burnt offerings, with yearling calves? 7. Will the Lord be pleased with thousands of rams, with myriad streams of oil? Shall I give my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? 8. He has told you, O man, what is good, and what the Lord demands of you; but to do justice, to love loving-kindness, and to walk discreetly with your G-d.
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June 7th 2012, 12:43 AM #432
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Amen, Tanakh Keeper, I agree with your point, as well as your Micah quote (in yr Signature), and endorse it wholeheartedly!
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November 10th 2012, 03:54 PM #433
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November 10th 2012, 08:22 PM #434
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Separate your own words more clearly from the Biblical verse please.
Obviously raped and repeatedly? Show me where the above leads to rape, and what that has to do with the topic of beating one's wife within the commands of Islam.• Edited by a Moderator •
You do know that those women had done something exceedingly evil right? You do know that their acts caused many Israelite's to lose their lives. This article explains just how bad it was.http://www.christianthinktank.com/midian.html• Edited by a Moderator •
You do know that these people had been given around 400 years to turn away from their evils, and didn't, right? This was a merciful act, not an evil one.• Edited by a Moderator •
That word isn't best translated as rape, and even if it was, there is Biblical precedent to believe that the woman would have WANTED the man to marry her. You really know nothing about the Biblical culture do you?• Edited by a Moderator •
Because this would show that she didn't fight, and that this was essentially adultery, which is a capitol crime. In the small cities they had back then, ANYONE screaming would have been heard.• Edited by a Moderator •
David being a king made it so that the subjects under his command, and even his family could be subject to punishment. I believe that this is referred to as "corporate punishment", obviously something you don't know anything about. Now, none of the above was on topic, and was all directed against Christianity, you want to take those issues up make your own thread, otherwise stick to the thread topic, which is whether or not wife beating is permissible in Islam.• Edited by a Moderator •Last edited by T-Shirt Ninja; November 11th 2012 at 03:28 PM.
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November 10th 2012, 10:55 PM #435
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