Mr peters i am very cynical but excited about marriage.

[Littlejoe]

I dont read redpill. I just know of the arguements.

What are the arguments? Serious question.

[TheWall]

What are the arguments? Serious question.

The arguement as far as i know is that marriage has become a financial and emotional trap that when triggered leaves people reeling in pain. The arguement goes that things like prenups, frivolous divorce, monetary burdens, and divorce court hurt men more than women. Now honestly i do not know much divorce court though i have been through divorce as a child and teenager. Because these systems are supposedly so against men a purported solution is to abandon the system alltogether. Honestly i do not think many want to destroy marriage as much as trying to change what one sees as undesireable.

[Littlejoe]

The arguement as far as i know is that marriage has become a financial and emotional trap that when triggered leaves people reeling in pain. The arguement goes that things like prenups, frivolous divorce, monetary burdens, and divorce court hurt men more than women. Now honestly i do not know much divorce court though i have been through divorce as a child and teenager. Because these systems are supposedly so against men a purported solution is to abandon the system alltogether. Honestly i do not think many want to destroy marriage as much as trying to change what one sees as undesireable.

Ok, that's definitely not the red pill I know. That just sounds like sour grapes pill to me?

Athol Kay's books have at the core of them to be the best you can be, step up to the plate and stop dumping everything on your wife to do, or decide. By being a strong rock in times of stress, always be willing to take the lead, but be sensitive to your spouse when she want to lead something...you can improve your marriage as you become a more attractive person to your wife...and this attraction is not always, or even usually, a conscious thought or feeling. His whole thing is for a successful marriage both partners need there needs met, and for many men, sex is a VERY important need...and the trend is that many are not getting it met. Mostly because men have become so beta that they let the W run everything...which many do not really want to do...and find this unattractive in a mate. He focuses on upping your value to become more desirable, but not by being a blue pill pleaser. This is actually good work advice as well. Management is always looking for leaders. Worker Bee's become too valuable where they are to advance, and usually are not seen as leaders...there value is in the amount of production. (AFAIK he never actually uses the terms red pill and blue pill he does use alpha and beta though) Also a good read for any man is the book, "No more Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A Glover PH.D.