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What role does beauty play in our lives? Let's plunge into the Deeper Waters and find out.
As an apologist, I have my own arguments for God's existence. The ways of Thomas Aquinas work great to me. Despite that, there is one argument that I personally find extremely convincing. I do not think I use it in debate because it is a more intuitive argument than one that will hit the mind. I have used it on a friend dealing with doubt before.
That is beauty.
When you're a single guy wanting to marry, you look around at the women in your world and think you're beautiful. Then you marry and you realize that you were right. That woman that you have in your life is beautiful. My Princess is a sacred gift to me.
You see, I realize something that I didn't really before. When a woman shares herself, she is sharing something sacred. I have exclusive rights to my wife that no other man does. My wife is a great treasure and no matter how many times I see her, it is still always new and amazing to me. I cannot even explain why it is that way. Before I was married, I did not understand why the human female form was so beautiful. I have now been married eight years and I still don't really understand it. I just know that it is.
Sometimes, we will hear the horrendous lie that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It certainly is not. Beauty is real, and if we miss out on beauty being real, truth and goodness are not far behind. A drawing that a small child makes of a stick man will not be nearly as beautiful as the Mona Lisa.
And yet our world cheapens beauty. Sadly, many women do it themselves. They treat their bodies like common goods and give them away to anyone who meets minimal requirements. One of the best ways a woman tells how much she's worth is by making a high price on her beauty, and that would be a lifelong covenant in marriage.
Pornography is a great way to devalue female beauty. I realize women watch porn and there is porn of men, but most of us, even most women, would agree that the woman is a whole lot more beautiful then the man is. I still look at my own body and wonder what the heck there is that my wife sees.
In the past, if a man wanted to see a naked woman and have sex, he had to be an honorable man and get married. That encouraged men to build up qualities that were fitting for a man to have. Not so today. Today, a man is encouraged to not be a man but really to be a user. If he wants to see a naked woman, he can just open up his browser and see one in seconds. If he wants to have sex with a woman, he could just go post on some internet site and have a hook-up that evening.
In doing this, we have lost the sacredness of beauty and sexuality. Sex is no longer a great good really in our society. It's common. It's just something people do together for fun. It's not about building up a serious love commitment one has already made and that is exclusive and definitely not about having children one day.
We think our society knows a lot about beauty. Look at all the investment we have in make-up and supermodels and such. We don't. We talk about it and display it and chase after it, but we don't think about it. The same is true with sexuality. Our culture doesn't think too much about sex. It thinks too little. It does everything else but think.
While we should think about it, one thing we can also do is live it out differently. Live our marriages like the other person is the most beautiful one in the world, because they are. Ladies. Hold out for the man who is worth it and guys, honor the women you are pursuing. Both sexes. Abandon any pornography now. Beauty and sex are sacred. Don't put them on open display.
In Christ,
Nick Peters
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What role does beauty play in our lives? Let's plunge into the Deeper Waters and find out.
As an apologist, I have my own arguments for God's existence. The ways of Thomas Aquinas work great to me. Despite that, there is one argument that I personally find extremely convincing. I do not think I use it in debate because it is a more intuitive argument than one that will hit the mind. I have used it on a friend dealing with doubt before.
That is beauty.
When you're a single guy wanting to marry, you look around at the women in your world and think you're beautiful. Then you marry and you realize that you were right. That woman that you have in your life is beautiful. My Princess is a sacred gift to me.
You see, I realize something that I didn't really before. When a woman shares herself, she is sharing something sacred. I have exclusive rights to my wife that no other man does. My wife is a great treasure and no matter how many times I see her, it is still always new and amazing to me. I cannot even explain why it is that way. Before I was married, I did not understand why the human female form was so beautiful. I have now been married eight years and I still don't really understand it. I just know that it is.
Sometimes, we will hear the horrendous lie that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It certainly is not. Beauty is real, and if we miss out on beauty being real, truth and goodness are not far behind. A drawing that a small child makes of a stick man will not be nearly as beautiful as the Mona Lisa.
And yet our world cheapens beauty. Sadly, many women do it themselves. They treat their bodies like common goods and give them away to anyone who meets minimal requirements. One of the best ways a woman tells how much she's worth is by making a high price on her beauty, and that would be a lifelong covenant in marriage.
Pornography is a great way to devalue female beauty. I realize women watch porn and there is porn of men, but most of us, even most women, would agree that the woman is a whole lot more beautiful then the man is. I still look at my own body and wonder what the heck there is that my wife sees.
In the past, if a man wanted to see a naked woman and have sex, he had to be an honorable man and get married. That encouraged men to build up qualities that were fitting for a man to have. Not so today. Today, a man is encouraged to not be a man but really to be a user. If he wants to see a naked woman, he can just open up his browser and see one in seconds. If he wants to have sex with a woman, he could just go post on some internet site and have a hook-up that evening.
In doing this, we have lost the sacredness of beauty and sexuality. Sex is no longer a great good really in our society. It's common. It's just something people do together for fun. It's not about building up a serious love commitment one has already made and that is exclusive and definitely not about having children one day.
We think our society knows a lot about beauty. Look at all the investment we have in make-up and supermodels and such. We don't. We talk about it and display it and chase after it, but we don't think about it. The same is true with sexuality. Our culture doesn't think too much about sex. It thinks too little. It does everything else but think.
While we should think about it, one thing we can also do is live it out differently. Live our marriages like the other person is the most beautiful one in the world, because they are. Ladies. Hold out for the man who is worth it and guys, honor the women you are pursuing. Both sexes. Abandon any pornography now. Beauty and sex are sacred. Don't put them on open display.
In Christ,
Nick Peters