Pardon the click-baity title. I want to suggest for you guys a listen to a brief NPR piece here:
https://www.npr.org/2018/11/14/66769...-from-intimacy
It's about seven minutes long and talks about how the sex rate is declining amongst Millenials--who have had less sexual partners than Gen x or even Boomers. Go ahead and listen, I'll wait:
The researcher blames two things: porn and dating apps. Her argument is that porn leads to either masturbation or attempting to replicate things people have seen with partners who just aren't into it. I don't think that's a big surprise. We Christians have long thought that porn can have a deleterious effect on a healthy sex life.
The part that I thought was mildly funny was how dating apps like tindr are actually leading to fewer hook ups because people are a.) being more choosy, and b.) over shooting their own attractiveness and trying to match with would-be-partners who in turn are rejecting them and likewise, that next group of more attractive people are over shooting their own attractiveness, and so own, until you have a chain of people who can find partners.
They cite that the average person who uses a dating app uses it for and hour and a half a day! That leads to an obvious understanding of these apps: they are fundamentally social media apps, the function of which is to get you to use the app, not to actually facilitate one's "romantic" life.
fwiw,
guacamole
https://www.npr.org/2018/11/14/66769...-from-intimacy
It's about seven minutes long and talks about how the sex rate is declining amongst Millenials--who have had less sexual partners than Gen x or even Boomers. Go ahead and listen, I'll wait:
The researcher blames two things: porn and dating apps. Her argument is that porn leads to either masturbation or attempting to replicate things people have seen with partners who just aren't into it. I don't think that's a big surprise. We Christians have long thought that porn can have a deleterious effect on a healthy sex life.
The part that I thought was mildly funny was how dating apps like tindr are actually leading to fewer hook ups because people are a.) being more choosy, and b.) over shooting their own attractiveness and trying to match with would-be-partners who in turn are rejecting them and likewise, that next group of more attractive people are over shooting their own attractiveness, and so own, until you have a chain of people who can find partners.
They cite that the average person who uses a dating app uses it for and hour and a half a day! That leads to an obvious understanding of these apps: they are fundamentally social media apps, the function of which is to get you to use the app, not to actually facilitate one's "romantic" life.
fwiw,
guacamole
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