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  • Shiro and Suffering

    Do our pets teach us anything?

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    What can life with pets teach us about suffering? Let's plunge into the Deeper Waters and find out.

    If you come to our apartment, you will quickly find out who really rules the roost. No. It's not me. Well, obviously, it must be the wife. No. It's not Allie. The undisputed ruler of our house is this guy.

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    This is Shiro. We got him when we had been married for about a year. We were searching for a new apartment to live and someone had abandoned him. They were going to take him to the pound if we didn't do anything. Now we are different from most couples in that I have always been a fan of cats and Allie has preferred dogs, but this cat is different. She bonded with this cat immediately. We wound up adopting him.

    No regrets.

    Oh sure. Sometimes he gets on our nerves. Sometimes it's really annoying to be wanting to sleep in the morning and hear that little kitty whining relentlessly because he wants to be fed. Such is life. We get a cat and we get the responsibilities. It's worth it. Allie gets a great sense of joy when she's sitting or lying on the couch and he jumps up right next to her.

    Knowing this, picture our concern when we hear him making a noise that sounds like he's throwing up on Wednesday morning. This has happened. He gets hairballs. Not this time. There's blood there. We make an appointment for the vet.

    So enter step one of the suffering for Shiro. We have to get him and put him in his kitty carrier. He's not happy about that. One can picture him if he could thinking, "If these people love me, why are they locking me in this tiny confined area?" Sometimes on the road, he would get quiet. I told Allie that I suspected he had just resigned himself to his fate and knew he wasn't escaping.

    Step two of suffering is the vet itself. If any serious work is done on our cat, he has to be sedated because he turns fierce on those he doesn't trust. We saw him in a vet office running around on the counter and hissing. He had apparently peed on himself in the carrier probably out of fear. When it came time to get him back in, it took two technicians working with gloves and a blanket to get him back in.

    Allie was surprised by this, but not I. I was kind of expecting it. Shiro's a lovable little guy to us, but he just doesn't trust strangers and hey, which of us would really mark going down to the doctor as a favorite hobby of ours? Even more so when it's at the hands of people you have given trust to.

    Now step three. Three times a day we have to give him medicine. What does that involve? We can't put it on his food or in his water. Nope. In case of a stomach ulcer, we have to take these pill halves, crush them, and then use a syringe and squirt the water from it in his mouth. First, we have to catch him. Then we have to hold him securely in a towel like a kitty burrito, and finally, we have to somehow get him to open his mouth without biting at us.

    Not easy.

    How many times we wish we could get him to see. If he would just work with us and not resist, it would all be done quickly and easily. Instead, he sees our hands and that syringe as threats to him instead of tools to help him in his health. I can't blame him. He's a cat. He wouldn't understand if I tried to explain.

    And every time I think about the problem of evil. (Yep. I'm a theology nerd.)

    The difference between us and a cat is vast. The difference between us and the infinite God is even better. Am I much better? Do I not resist the hands of the potter? Do I think that the event in my life that is meant to chisel me into the likeness of Christ is really something for my harm? Do I really think God allows something into my life because He just wants to see me suffer or delights in my pain or something like that? Do I really think God is a great cosmic sadist?

    Maybe if I just went along and submitted and allowed God to use the pain in my life somehow, things would work better. Of course, there are some distinctions. I think we should be hesitant to say God is directly doing something in our lives without strong evidence, but we can be sure that all that happens in our lives happens because God allowed it.

    Yet if we believe Scripture, Romans 8 tells us that all things work for good to them that love the Lord. Are all things good? No. The text doesn't say that. It says that everything will be used for good. That means no matter what happens in our lives, ultimately, we win.

    Does that mean we don't complain about suffering? No. The Psalmist does it. Does that mean we don't cry in it or feel the pain? No. Again, the Psalmist does the same. Does it mean we don't question? No. Same answer. It does mean that we do also what the Psalmist still does. We trust God anyway.

    What does that look like? It means we keep going and we do the right thing even in the face of suffering. Suffering is never a justification for doing what is wrong. Do the right thing and give honor to God still. It could be God doesn't explain it to us because He can't. It's not because of some limitation on His part, but because of one on ours. For all we know, it could involve events hundreds or thousands of years in the future.

    And really, you're not owed an explanation. It's quite arrogant to think God should tell us XYZ. If He doesn't tell us, it's for our good. Perhaps if we knew we couldn't be shaped the way we need to be.

    And meanwhile, pray for our little Shiro. Things have been going well for him. We think it was most likely a new food we tried to give him. There has been no blood vomited at all, but he's our little joy here and we are happy to have him around.

    In Christ,
    Nick Peters

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    We can indeed learn a lot about ourselves from watching pets or even more from watching smaller children.
    Micah 6:8 He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?

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      Pets teach us patience. When I got my first two kittens, it turned out they were both sick. I had to give them a liquid antibiotic by mouth and put ointment on their eyes. Needless to say, they really didn't like that last part. The only time I've gotten seriously bit was when I was in a hurry to get to work on time and tried to rush things.
      Enter the Church and wash away your sins. For here there is a hospital and not a court of law. Do not be ashamed to enter the Church; be ashamed when you sin, but not when you repent. – St. John Chrysostom

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