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    Thoughts On Young Death

    What happens when someone dies too early?

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    What do we think when someone young passes away? Let's plunge into the Deeper Waters and find out.

    I was going to do another book review, but last night I was looking over a Facebook page dedicated to my high school class's 20th year reunion coming up. In a thread, I noticed comments about people we had lost. Three of them I was unaware of. Two had been lost to sickness. One died in a car accident. A final one went the awful way of suicide.

    It was sobering.

    I suspect when we get together for our reunion, we're going to have fun and enjoy each other, but imagine getting out the yearbooks there and looking through and realizing "Oh wait. They're not with us anymore." There will be a fog of sadness hanging over the area then, and there should be. We live in a world where this just isn't supposed to happen.

    Sickness does come, but sickness is supposed to take us later in life. People in their 20's aren't supposed to die of diseases. Right? We all know it happens, but surely it won't happen to us or to someone we know. Right? Well, if it happens to someone, there's no guarantee it won't.

    What about a car accident? I have been in some of them. Last May, my wife and I were in a major accident and I still think I could have lost her. Think about how innocent it is. We all get in cars most days of the week and assume we will reach our destination safely, which is understandable. Most of the time, car accidents don't happen.

    This girl who died in this car accident I am sure got in the car with her life ahead of her with plans for the day and for the future. Those plans were tragically cut short. Life will never be the same. As I say this, my wife is out with her Celebrate Recovery sponsor. I saw her go off and I kissed her beforehand, but I realize I have no guarantee of ever seeing her again. It's also another reason why whenever I leave the house I always tell Allie I love her and wait for her to say it back. If anything ever happened, may the last words we said to each other be "I love you."

    And then finally, suicide.

    That dark path.

    I say this married to someone who has had suicide attempts. I've even seen her after one. I easily count it the worst day of my life.

    I read that this suicide from our high school class took place 12 years ago so either 2006 or 2007. If so, I remember what I was doing. I was preparing to move into an apartment so I could assure my parents I could handle living in Charlotte for Seminary. I moved to Charlotte on September 30, 2007.

    While I was looking forward to a bright future, someone had decided they had no future. While I had a passion I thought worth living for, someone had decided there was nothing worth living for. While I was enjoying the gift of life, someone was considering it a curse and took theirs away.

    Tragic indeed.

    As a Christian, this hits home to me. For one thing, the resurrection tells me that all of the sufferings we see will be reversed. Someone might only live this time to their 20's, but in eternity, they will live forever. The question then becomes how will they be living forever. Will it be eternal living or dying?

    It also impresses on me the importance to tell people the good news of Christ. Now I'm not telling you to ram the gospel down someone's throat so much that you're annoying. I am telling you to try to be a bit more forward, and that goes for me as well.

    And how will we spend this time? Do you think someone will look back and say "You know, I am so glad I didn't waste so much time in my life telling my family I loved them." I doubt they will say "If only I hadn't gone to my son's baseball game." "If only I hadn't had that romantic evening with my husband." "If only I hadn't taken my wife out for dinner that evening."

    The reality is, we take these things for granted too often. As a nerd, you might hear me talk about my wife a lot, and I think might doesn't need to be in that sentence even. I never thought I would have anyone and I spend so much of my time celebrating that fact. I'm still amazed when I go to sleep at night and crawl into bed next to my wife. As I type this, I have pictures of her in here and I look at them spellbound thinking that I am the only man that gets to truly love my wife.

    The people you have in your life, they're not burdens. They're not problems. They're not annoyances. (Okay. Sometimes I can be annoying, but that's different.) They're people in the image of God. C.S. Lewis was right when he said next to the sacrament, your neighbor is the most holy sight you see.

    Sometime this year, I anticipate seeing people, some of whom I haven't seen in twenty years, again. Who knows how many people might be at a 25th reunion? Will we lose some? Perhaps. Should I treasure those that show up? Indeed.

    Should I treasure those around me right now?

    Should you?

    In Christ,
    Nick Peters

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