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Faith is not what we fall back to when reason isn't available. It's the conviction of what we have reason to believe. Greg Koukl
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Originally posted by Papa Zoom View PostA sixteen year old male-to-female was given the choice of a partitioned off area in the girl's shower and he said that wasn't good enough. He didn't want to be treated differently. The Feds agreed with him (her).
Although I still think it's weird you guys seem to have so many open shower areas. That's pretty unusual here... it's all individual cubicles."I hate him passionately", he's "a demonic force" - Tucker Carlson, in private, on Donald Trump
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Originally posted by Starlight View PostThat outcome makes me uncomfortable.
Although I still think it's weird you guys seem to have so many open shower areas. That's pretty unusual here... it's all individual cubicles.The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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Originally posted by Starlight View PostThat outcome makes me uncomfortable.
Although I still think it's weird you guys seem to have so many open shower areas. That's pretty unusual here... it's all individual cubicles.
Here's another tid-bit from my training. If you're a 13 year old kid, and you leave home in your boy clothes, but change to a dress and makeup at school, the school, by law, cannot tell the parents this. For example, if the transgender student is in a counselor's office, and the counselor is talking to the parent on the phone, the counselor will refer to the student as his biological gender (he, him etc) but to the student they will use she and her. It's up to the student to tell the parents. Not the school.
So if the parent says, "Johnny doesn't seem very interested in doing much. He's very depressed at home and I'm worried. Are there signs of any unusual things happening at school?"
The counselor will say, "Not that I'm aware." Even though Johnny is in the counselor's office, in a dress, putting on his/her makeup. That's how crazy this is at the moment.
If you think this is the end of it, think again. There's much much more to come.
Which is why I'm starting to identify as a sasquatch. I'm leaving the human race for a more rational species.
The kindergarten kid in Kindergarten Cop had it right. Life used to be so simple: Joseph: [to Phoebe] Boys have a penis, and girls have a vagina.Faith is not what we fall back to when reason isn't available. It's the conviction of what we have reason to believe. Greg Koukl
The loss of objectivity in moral thought does not lead to liberation. It leads to oppression. Secular ideologies preach liberty, but they practice tyranny. — Nancy Pearcey
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Originally posted by Papa Zoom View PostHere's another tid-bit from my training. If you're a 13 year old kid, and you leave home in your boy clothes, but change to a dress and makeup at school, the school, by law, cannot tell the parents this. For example, if the transgender student is in a counselor's office, and the counselor is talking to the parent on the phone, the counselor will refer to the student as his biological gender (he, him etc) but to the student they will use she and her. It's up to the student to tell the parents. Not the school.
So if the parent says, "Johnny doesn't seem very interested in doing much. He's very depressed at home and I'm worried. Are there signs of any unusual things happening at school?"
The counselor will say, "Not that I'm aware." Even though Johnny is in the counselor's office, in a dress, putting on his/her makeup. That's how crazy this is at the moment.
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That's not to say I think it's the counselor's place to lie to the parents, with possible exceptions.Last edited by Carrikature; 11-24-2015, 10:01 AM.I'm not here anymore.
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Originally posted by One Bad Pig View PostI guarantee you it's not happening in this case, or it would've been brought up by her guardians.
Originally posted by One Bad Pig View PostOh, don't back down now. You know full well you implied it, or you wouldn't have brought it up.
Originally posted by One Bad Pig View PostI guarantee you that lawsuits have been filed for lesser things.
Originally posted by One Bad Pig View PostConvictions are red herrings, now?I'm not here anymore.
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Originally posted by Carrikature View PostI'll be the first to say I don't know how I feel about this. I think there's a really big clash in how we view children in terms of the rules meant to protect them, and I think this is an area where it shows up perfectly. If parents were perfect, it'd be a lot cleaner. Kids need someone to trust, though, right? A school counselor is far from ideal, but where are they supposed to turn? Religious systems?Atheism is the cult of death, the death of hope. The universe is doomed, you are doomed, the only thing that remains is to await your execution...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jbnueb2OI4o&t=3s
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Originally posted by Carrikature View PostI wish that were true (it mostly is). I've seen some pretty crummy parents, though. Certain areas tend to be a lot more tolerant, too.Atheism is the cult of death, the death of hope. The universe is doomed, you are doomed, the only thing that remains is to await your execution...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jbnueb2OI4o&t=3s
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Originally posted by seer View PostYes, it mostly is - I certainly would not generally trust school officials more. And tolerance is relative - there are some behaviors in our kids that we should not be tolerant of.
This is a serious concern, and it's not limited to LGBT or fringe anything. It's pretty useless to insist that the parents mostly are good when the exceptions are what I'm talking about or when we know teenagers don't always recognize the reality.I'm not here anymore.
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Originally posted by Carrikature View PostI'll be the first to say I don't know how I feel about this. I think there's a really big clash in how we view children in terms of the rules meant to protect them, and I think this is an area where it shows up perfectly. If parents were perfect, it'd be a lot cleaner. Kids need someone to trust, though, right? A school counselor is far from ideal, but where are they supposed to turn? Religious systems?
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That's not to say I think it's the counselor's place to lie to the parents, with possible exceptions.A happy family is but an earlier heaven.
George Bernard Shaw
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Originally posted by Catholicity View PostCounselor's should never lie, but they can withhold information as needed to keep a child safe. They are there to keep a person's trust and to be a sounding board. In the example that Papa Zoom provided rather than the counselor saying "not that I am aware" the counselor may say: "Try to keep an open mind as to the child's wants as he/she explores his/her identity." or "So and so really needs to know he/she is accepted for who he/she is right now." While that does not reveal a secret, it may clue the parents in that the child is hurt or has an unspoken need and can use extra loving.I'm not here anymore.
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I don't think people who just cross-dress should even be called "transgender" - I think transgender should be used for those people who have genetic defects (hermaphrodites, etc) or who are actually undergoing or have underwent surgery to change sexes. None of that applies to a 2nd grader, who has not even entered puberty. her parents are just cross-dressing the child and trying to force society to accept their decision on what "gender" the child is. If the school does stick her in with the boys, she will just end up traumatized as the other boys find out she is really a girl and start to make fun of her.
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Originally posted by Carrikature View PostI haven't suggested otherwise, though. I've asked where kids in a situation where they don't feel safe/comfortable around their parents for whatever reason (real or imagined) are supposed to go. I don't think the answer is school officials anymore than you do, but kids are going to go where they feel safe. If it's the counselor, if it's a random guy on the street (hope not!)...
This is a serious concern, and it's not limited to LGBT or fringe anything. It's pretty useless to insist that the parents mostly are good when the exceptions are what I'm talking about or when we know teenagers don't always recognize the reality.Atheism is the cult of death, the death of hope. The universe is doomed, you are doomed, the only thing that remains is to await your execution...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jbnueb2OI4o&t=3s
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