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"As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths." Isaiah 3:12
There is no such thing as innocence, only degrees of guilt.
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Originally posted by Darth Executor View PostI hate to break it to you but your "privilege" isn't yours, it was created by your ancestors for their progeny
and your duty is to have your own (biological if possible) kids and pass it on to them.
Because you are breaking this fundamental social contract you are pretty much a traitorous arsonist and your civilization will end. Sad!“He felt that his whole life was a kind of dream and he sometimes wondered whose it was and whether they were enjoying it.” - Douglas Adams.
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostDay after day I am confronted with the reality of mymale, white privilegeown self-loathing.Some may call me foolish, and some may call me odd
But I'd rather be a fool in the eyes of man
Than a fool in the eyes of God
From "Fools Gold" by Petra
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Originally posted by Mountain Man View PostThat's what you really meant. Gladly, I don't have that problem "White privilege" means nothing more than I am expected to work hard for my successes, and take personal responsibility for my failures.The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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The fact that you even buy into the "white privilege" false narrative says it all, as if all whites have the same advantages, and all blacks have the same disadvantages. You say the scales need to be balanced? Wrong, because they are not inherently out of balance just because you were born white. Life isn't a zero-sum gameSome may call me foolish, and some may call me odd
But I'd rather be a fool in the eyes of man
Than a fool in the eyes of God
From "Fools Gold" by Petra
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View Post
We apparently have different moral codes. When my moral code tells me "I ought do X," then I am responsible for doing it. Leaving someone in a harmful/dangerous/stuck position they cannot extracate themselves from when I am capable of helping them extracate themselves is immoral - ergo I ought to help - ergo I am responsible for helping. You, apparently have a different code. Given the parable of the Samaritan in the Christian scriptures, I am a little surprised by that - but it is your choice.
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostNo - but it IS about attempting to make things even. Day after day I am confronted with the reality of my male, white privilege.
After this I can't take anything you say seriously. sorry.
PS My ancestors (including my dad) came from Appalachia where some of the poorest white folk in the world still live. Tell me about their white privilege.Last edited by Sparko; 01-25-2018, 07:03 AM.
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostNo - but it IS about attempting to make things even. Day after day I am confronted with the reality of my male, white privilege. It is evident in the wage disparity we see, the implicit bias we see in so many venues (Air B&B, Uber, etc.), in the recent focus on sexual exploitation/harassment in pretty much any venue, and a whole range of areas. I benefit from this privelege, but I actually did nothing to earn it. I was merely born white and male by whatever fluke of fate. My privilege places on me are requirement that I seek out where those kinds of injustice continue to live, and do what I can to correct them. Part of that is done with how I choose to use my time (being here and posting here in discussions like this one is part of it). Part with how I choose to use my charitable dollars. Part of it is how I choose to use my manual labor. It also impacted decisions I made about adoption of my children.
I do believe we should all be doing these things, but my primary focus is on what I do, and how I can help to bring balance/justice to situations that are intrinsically out of balance and unjust.Remember that you are dust and to dust you shall return.
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Originally posted by Sparko View Post
After this I can't take anything you say seriously. sorry.
PS My ancestors (including my dad) came from Appalachia where some of the poorest white folk in the world still live. Tell me about their white privilege.
As for taking me seriously, I leave that entirely to you. I am aware of the widspread rejection of the concept of white/male privilege among those of the far right.The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by Sparko View PostMaybe you two are speaking past each other. Instead of saying you are "responsible" to do X, perhaps you mean you are "morally obligated" to do XThe ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by Mountain Man View PostThe fact that you even buy into the "white privilege" false narrative says it all, as if all whites have the same advantages, and all blacks have the same disadvantages. You say the scales need to be balanced? Wrong, because they are not inherently out of balance just because you were born white. Life isn't a zero-sum gameThe ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostI said what I really meant, MM. On the off chance this is not another of your trolling posts, you paint a false dichotomy. White privilege gave me a boost - it did not make me successful. I did that. But there is no question I started at a better place than a black woman born in a Chicago project, and had advantages she will probably never have in my lifetime.
And that boosted starting place and those advantages were not things I earned or merited.
Recognizing it, and working to help balance the scales is what I refer to as social justice.
The dictionary definition is...justice in terms of the distribution of wealth, opportunities, and privileges within a society.
"individuality gives way to the struggle for social justice"
If I want to 'redistribute my wealth', that should be a personal decision, and not based on being 'guilted' by a bunch of feel good liberals.
It has nothing to do with self-loathing.
So, particularly in the "redistribution of wealth" aspect of "social justice" -- you think this should be done by law?The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostNo - but it IS about attempting to make things even. Day after day I am confronted with the reality of my male, white privilege. It is evident in the wage disparity we see, the implicit bias we see in so many venues (Air B&B, Uber, etc.), in the recent focus on sexual exploitation/harassment in pretty much any venue, and a whole range of areas. I benefit from this privelege, but I actually did nothing to earn it. I was merely born white and male by whatever fluke of fate. My privilege places on me are requirement that I seek out where those kinds of injustice continue to live, and do what I can to correct them. Part of that is done with how I choose to use my time (being here and posting here in discussions like this one is part of it). Part with how I choose to use my charitable dollars. Part of it is how I choose to use my manual labor. It also impacted decisions I made about adoption of my children.
I do believe we should all be doing these things, but my primary focus is on what I do, and how I can help to bring balance/justice to situations that are intrinsically out of balance and unjust.
1. commit suicide
2. be a victim of a violent crime
3. not receive custody of their kids in a divorce situation
4. work in a dangerous job, be injured on the job, die on the job, etc.
Here's another that bugs me: why does everybody want to talk about white male privilege, but nobody wants to talk about "pretty privilege"? The fact that attractive people have it easier than unattractive people (like me) seems undeniable.
I could go on: I'm a white male, but I also have an extremely unusual chronic digestion problem that makes many things far more difficult than they should be. Does this factor into consideration of my "white privilege"?
Here's one obvious downside of being a white male: you will, simply by virtue of being a white male, be dismissed by someone pontificating about white privilege sooner or later.I DENOUNCE DONALD J. TRUMP AND ALL HIS IMMORAL ACTS.
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostOK so far!
Sill OK so far....
And it's wonderful that you voluntarily want to do some thing good. "Social Justice", however, is more about forcing guilt and 'equality' on people.
The dictionary definition is...justice in terms of the distribution of wealth, opportunities, and privileges within a society.
"individuality gives way to the struggle for social justice"
If I want to 'redistribute my wealth', that should be a personal decision, and not based on being 'guilted' by a bunch of feel good liberals.
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostI think, in your case, it sure came across that way in your initial post on this.
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostSo, particularly in the "redistribution of wealth" aspect of "social justice" -- you think this should be done by law?The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by Zymologist View PostI find the typical approach to "white privilege" and "male privilege" to be an unhelpful oversimplification. For example, males are statistically more likely to:
1. commit suicide
2. be a victim of a violent crime
3. not receive custody of their kids in a divorce situation
4. work in a dangerous job, be injured on the job, die on the job, etc.
Originally posted by Zymologist View PostHere's another that bugs me: why does everybody want to talk about white male privilege, but nobody wants to talk about "pretty privilege"? The fact that attractive people have it easier than unattractive people (like me) seems undeniable.
Originally posted by Zymologist View PostI could go on: I'm a white male, but I also have an extremely unusual chronic digestion problem that makes many things far more difficult than they should be. Does this factor into consideration of my "white privilege"?
Originally posted by Zymologist View PostHere's one obvious downside of being a white male: you will, simply by virtue of being a white male, be dismissed by someone pontificating about white privilege sooner or later.
Day after day I am confronted with the reality of my male, white privilege. It is evident in the wage disparity we see, the implicit bias we see in so many venues (Air B&B, Uber, etc.), in the recent focus on sexual exploitation/harassment in pretty much any venue, and a whole range of areas. I benefit from this privelege, but I actually did nothing to earn it. I was merely born white and male by whatever fluke of fate. My privilege places on me are requirement that I seek out where those kinds of injustice continue to live, and do what I can to correct them. Part of that is done with how I choose to use my time (being here and posting here in discussions like this one is part of it). Part with how I choose to use my charitable dollars. Part of it is how I choose to use my manual labor. It also impacted decisions I made about adoption of my children.
I do believe we should all be doing these things, but my primary focus is on what I do, and how I can help to bring balance/justice to situations that are intrinsically out of balance and unjust.
With the exception of the one sentence that describes the various places where we can explicitly see white/male privilege enacted, the entire post is about myself, and simply acknowledges that I know I have inherited some privileges I did not earn. I believe we should all be examining this in our own lives, and taking appropriate action to balance. At no point did I say that the privilege was equally experienced by everyone, or everyone would have the same work to do to balance. Some of us would be givers (those with more privilege) and some receivers (those with less). I never accused anyone, I expressed no guilt about it. It is simply a reality that I take responsibility for acknowledging in my life and making choices to try to help bring what balance I can.
The reaction here is truly amazing.The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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