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Mr "Holding,"

QUEEN: You don't have any idea....you don't have any clue what it feels like to be raped?

"HOLDING": How does that affect wheher or not the punishment was what the ancients preferred?
You have never been raped, have you Mr. "Holding"?

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Queen,

Don't let "JPH" bother you. Understand that he has devoted his life to Christian apologetics. He has to defend biblical atrocities and absurdities so he has invented various rationalizations for them. His excuse for this rape "law" from God is just another in a long list of excuses he has manufactured for various God-ordained cruelties and barbarities in the bible.

Keep in mind that, despite his posturing as a completely rational and highly educated intellectual, Mr Holding is by all indications a young earth creationist and he thinks that the Adam and Eve story is an actual historical event. In other words, he doesn't think Genesis needs to be updated or thrown out. I would say that Mr. "Holding" accepts this Adam and Eve story as true not because of the a careful appraisal of the facts of history and science, but rather because of an emotional attachment to his religious beliefs.

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Speculation on your part. I have seen Mr. Holding, in writing, abstain from creation/evolution debate as he admits it is not his forte.

 
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Mr "Holding,"



You have never been raped, have you Mr. "Holding"?

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Which punishment is worse: going to prison for a few years (as is the case in the American judicial system), or being a family's personal slave until your death?

 
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Speculation on your part. I have seen Mr. Holding, in writing, abstain from creation/evolution debate as he admits it is not his forte.
"Holding" appears to dismiss evolution because he objects to some analogies Dr. Richard Dawkins uses to illustrate various principles of evolution:

http://www.tektonics.org/evologic.html

Here is a critique of "Holding's" article on Dawkins:

http://members.aol.com/bbu82/holdevo.htm

"Holding" is a bible inerrantist who links to Answers in Genesis for questions about creationism. If creation/evolution is not his "forte" though, how can he pretend that he knows AIG's information is reliable?

http://www.tektonics.org/TK-E.html

"I'm no scientist, so expect mostly links here. I prefer to refer folks to my friends at Answers in Genesis."

Answers in Genesis is a young earth creationist organization. This organization has a "Statment of Faith" that includes the following:

D) GENERAL

The following are held by members of the Board of Answers in Genesis to be either consistent with Scripture or implied by Scripture:

Scripture teaches a recent origin for man and the whole creation.

The days in Genesis do not correspond to geologic ages, but are six [6] consecutive twenty-four [24] hour days of Creation.

The Noachian Flood was a significant geological event and much (but not all) fossiliferous sediment originated at that time.

The ‘gap’ theory has no basis in Scripture.

The view, commonly used to evade the implications or the authority of Biblical teaching, that knowledge and/or truth may be divided into ‘secular’ and ‘religious’, is rejected.

By definition, no apparent, perceived or claimed evidence in any field, including history and chronology, can be valid if it contradicts the Scriptural record. (emphasis added) Of primary importance is the fact that evidence is always subject to interpretation by fallible people who do not possess all information.
Remember-"Holding" refers people to AIG for scientific information.

Furthermore, in various parts of his site,"Holding" defends the Adam and Eve story and indicates that he believes Genesis is literally true. Here is a quote from his site:

http://www.tektonics.org/TK-GEN.html

"The Discovery of Genesis by Ethel Nelson -- buy this book from Amazon.com -- how Chinese language characaters confirm the literal truth of Genesis -- see related item here."

Here are some "Holding" essays on Genesis.

http://www.tektonics.org/cainwife.html

http://www.tektonics.org/TK-GEN.html (repeated link)

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Lovely people,

Please throw away the bible for one second and look at this subject with the heart. Look at it from your own feelings. This is not something you can rationalize and place in a different time and age. It happens still and it will happen in the future as well. As soon as I push this button another woman or man has suffered rape and will be sentenced for life. That happens when you are a victim/survivor. They stopped struggling, were afraid to scream even though it happened in the garden, their own house, their street, in their home towns. They are sinners because they froze and did not scream? They deserve to die? Because God tells us that she has to scream or she will be stoned to death if she heard help and didn't scream? And if she could not scream for help she has to face him everyday? Excuse me if I am confused. Many things are scared from the bible and and the laws of God still mean everything to many Christians here. Nothing wrong with beliefs/ faith, but why should these laws be different, as you so gallantly express. I mean I respect your beliefs and faith, but if homosexual acts are a sin by God's law, why should this law be any different?

Which punishment is worse: going to prison for a few years (as is the case in the American judicial system), or being a family's personal slave until your death?
Which punishment is worse: Not seeing that sick ...... anymore or being faced with the body and soul that caused you horrific humiliation everyday?

Are you ready to read some rape stories? This is the link. Be careful, some of these stories are very graphic, written by survivors of rape. Don't go there if you can not handle this...

http://www.survivingtothriving.org/shareyourstory

Tell me after you have read these, that I must stay rational. Please understand my disgust about these "laws"..........

"Rape is the only crime where the victim becomes the accused"

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jimbo:
You have never been raped, have you Mr. "Holding"?
You've never lived in the Ancient Near East, or lived in an agonistic society have you "Jimbo"?


Queen:

Please throw away the bible for one second and look at this subject with the heart. Look at it from your own feelings. This is not something you can rationalize and place in a different time and age.

In other words, you don't have any answer other than continued temporal provinicialism. Queen, do you value cultural diversity? Isn't it rather bigoted and presumptive to assume that just because you felt a certain way, all others thorugh space and time have as well? This is your one and only argument. You're not answering any points I have made about the difference; all you do is continue to universalize your experience without any justification.

They are sinners because they froze and did not scream?

And of course, rather than answer, you change the subject? Keep in mind the words of Hillers: If the woman said, "I was too scared to scream," or if the rapist stuffed her mouth with something, the judges took this into account. Reread what Hillers says. This is case law, not an instruction booklet.

Nothing wrong with beliefs/ faith, but why should these laws be different, as you so gallantly express. I mean I respect your beliefs and faith, but if homosexual acts are a sin by God's law, why should this law be any different?

The answer depends on each law by case and the reason for it.

Which punishment is worse: Not seeing that sick ...... anymore or being faced with the body and soul that caused you horrific humiliation everyday?

To an ancient agonistic person, seeing that sick....horrifically humiliated every day is even better. Can you even imagine that?

Are you ready to read some rape stories?

If they all come from modern, individualist persons they are of no relevance to this discussion. You do not universalize these experiences by mere repetition, Queen.

Tell me after you have read these, that I must stay rational.

You must, about the subject of how Deut. deals with the matter, otherwise you become "one of them" as you in essence violate the text and the judgment values of the persons who wrote it. Is that what you want to do?

Please understand my disgust about these "laws"..........

And why are you not willing to understand their perspective?

In closing, here is a link as well:

http://www.forward.com/issues/2003/0...5.portion.html

It is short enough to include here, however. It is indirectly relevant, but does show how the thinking of the Easterner is different even today. Read this and tell me that you have the right to universalize your feelings.

We Have a Different Sense of Justice
THE PORTION
Deuteronomy 16:18-21:9
By GARY A. RENDSBURG

In 1931 my late teacher Cyrus Gordon, who died in 2001, was a young archaeologist working at an excavation in the Kurdish region of northern Iraq. As one might imagine, the region was much safer than it is in our day. Indeed, usually there were no problems with the local villagers on such scholarly expeditions. On one occasion, however, as professor Gordon related, a minor annoyance occurred. Each morning the archaeological team would awake to find that its Jeep had been overturned. The men would turn the Jeep right side up each time, but the next day they would find that the Jeep had been overturned again. After several days of such activity, the archaeologists complained to the local mukhtar (the Arabic word for "mayor," though in the typical village he serves as mayor, chief of police and magistrate all rolled into one). The mukhtar said he would take care of the matter.

Later that day the mukhtar came to the archaeologists and said, "Your Jeep will not be overturned again." The excavators asked, "What did you do?" The mukhtar pointed to the nearest house situated atop one of the nearby hills and said, "Do you see that house up there? My men went in there and roughed up the place." The archaeologists asked, "Are they the ones that overturned the Jeep?" And the mukhtar replied, "No, but they will find out who did it, and they will take care of them." The archaeologists understandably were astonished by such a display of justice, but the mukhtar had a ready reply. He had been exposed to some Western ideas of jurisprudence, and he explained to the American visitors, "You see, we have a different sense of justice than in your society. In your society, you punish criminals. In our society, we punish crimes."

I first heard this story from professor Gordon when I was a graduate student in the 1970s. Our graduate seminars typically involved reading ancient texts in various Semitic languages, and the usual approach was to compare one ancient Near Eastern culture to another. Most often we would apply knowledge gained from reading the literature of the Babylonians or the Canaanites or the Egyptians to the Bible. But very frequently something in a text would resonate with one of my teacher's life experiences from his years in the modern Middle East. And he delighted in sharing such stories with us.

The comparison between something experienced in this century and something from 3,000 years ago is possible because the Near East is a region of tenaciously traditional lifestyles and values. Obviously, the Near East today is rapidly changing, so when we speak of the traditional Near East, we do not have in mind people under the influence of Western society who may speak English or French and who dress in European fashion (as one encounters in urban settings in the modern Middle East). Instead, we must seek out villagers and Bedouins whose social world has changed little since antiquity.

For the biblical scholar today, often such villages and Bedouin tribes are inaccessible. Most scholars of the Bible today have traveled extensively in Israel, but have limited experience in other countries. And since Israel is the most westernized of the Middle Eastern countries, it is not the best place to study traditional Near Eastern life. Fortunately, however, the generation of scholars to which I belong had teachers who experienced the Near East both before the increase of Westernization and before modern politics made travel in many countries extremely dangerous.

How does all this relate to this week's portion? The last of the many laws presented in Shoftim is the law of unsolved homicide. Deuteronomy 21:1-9 describes a situation whereby a slain corpse is found in the open field between two cities and the identity of the slayer is unknown. The elders of the two cities are to measure the distance between the site and their cities, and the residents of the closer city must perform a ritual of expiation and atonement. The specifics of this ritual are rather strange. A heifer that has never been worked must be taken to a wadi, and there it is to be killed by breaking its neck. The elders of the closer city are to wash their hands over this slain animal and declare: "Our hands did not shed this blood, nor did our eyes see it done. Absolve your people Israel whom you redeemed, O Lord, and do not place innocent blood amidst your people Israel."

Now the elders of the closer city are by no means guilty of an offense, but it is interesting to note that a crime has been committed and thus expiation is necessary. One need only compare what would occur under similar circumstances in the United States. Obviously, the police would do all they could to investigate the crime. But if no murderer were found, that would be the end of the case. True, the police file would remain open, for years in fact, but no further criminal procedure would be necessary. To be sure, no one would have to be absolved of or punished for the crime. The reason is obvious, and indeed it was stated by the mukhtar in the story related above. In our society, we punish criminals. If no criminal is found, then the case does not proceed further. But in the Near East, crimes are punished. This is true not only in the story that professor Gordon related, but said story explains the law in Deuteronomy more adequately than a dozen scholarly monographs on biblical theology and law.


Gary Rendsburg is the Paul and Berthe Hendrix memorial professor of Jewish studies at Cornell University.

 
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JP,

You use the same answers to different questions. Am I bigoted? I believe you are living in lala land, thinking that rape should be placed in that ancient time as something women "accepted". This is such Bull#$@#. Because I am reacting emotional to an insulting law in the bible, I am a bigote??????

And where did you came up with words like temporal provinicialism? Me? You really don't know me. I act as a temporal provinicialist? Man, if someone of us two is broad minded it is surely not you. I think you are afraid of the here and now, because you know this law sucks in the here and now. If it is out of date and those women accepted this law......I don't want to read such tasteless things in my bible. (Yep, I owe a bible... ).

If they all come from modern, individualist persons they are of no relevance to this discussion. You do not universalize these experiences by mere repetition, Queen.
Why do you use a computer??????? Are you afraid to read it? You should be ....these are stories from people all over the world women but also men, from different cultural backgrounds. How strange they suffer the same. PTSD may not have had a name in that day and age, but why should these women not suffer from the same symptoms. Breaking a leg in that age was the same as breaking a leg today. We just have better ways to treat it....that doesn't mean it didn't exist 1400 BC.

You use the same lame answers on your site....you don't speak from the heart.....that would be too difficult I guess

And the fact that you make these survivors of rape ridiculous and belittle them, the survivors of the here and now tells me a lot about your true personality. I am not planning to talk with you anymore, because you are like a brick wall......and I don't want to waste my strenght on you anymore. So I push the ignore button and wish you a good life.

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Sorry for getting in the middle of this, but I think you two are just on different "wavelengths." I totally understand JP's answers, but I can also see that Queen is approaching this issue from a different persepective so the discussion isn't quite "connecting." I don't know...Just wanted to throw in my observations of this.

 
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Probably Jason, but JP could have expressed that in a different way.....IMHO...but I guess we are all just human. I just don't understand if the laws of God apply as well to the now, why this should be different...

Well, never mind...I am rambling.....

I should not have entered this discussion in the first place, because it is very personal.....so the mistake is mine in this case.

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Hi Queen!

Great name, it's the nickname for of my old friends in high school. But now we're far away from each other - she's at school in Pennsylvania and I am still down in the South (okay, well, in London for this semester). Sniff sniff. You sound very sweet - just like she is.

JP could have expressed that in a different way.....IMHO...but I guess we are all just human.
Indeed. I'm sorry if it sounds like JP is incapable of understanding that you've been through a lot of pain. I don't think that's the case. Instead, he's approaching the subject rationally because he thinks, and I do as well, that unless you go about it that way, then it is extremely unlikely that you will be able to understand a millennia-old text. His point is quite valid that cultures are very different - in some ways, people are people. In others, it can be quite surprising how different other societies are in comparison to our understanding of the values and mores of shared humanity. Another way this was brought home to me was recently in my Shakespeare class. The professor remarked that literary critic Harold Bloom actually argues in a book that Shakespeare is largely responsible, through his plays, for the emergence in Western civilization of the concept of an inner, individual self. It sounds strange to our ears, as we are thoroughly soaked in individualism, with all its attendant blessings and curses, in this modern society.

The fact remains, that people thought, felt, and acted differently in ancient Israel.
But there is also the fact that, because the women of those days were as human as they are, they suffered greatly when they were raped.
But returning to the first fact, one realizes that the way they in that society carried out justice and relieved the pain was different from our methods, since they were different from us.

Arguing this point is in no way meant to minimalize your suffering or pain. God help anyone who who would think that way.

I just don't understand if the laws of God apply as well to the now, why this should be different...
Because we are a different society with a different social structure, standard of living, economic system, and so on and so forth. We can recognize the principle (that rape is wrong and must be dealt with) and then determine the types of punishment and relief that would best serve our current civilization.

For a Christian, the approach to these laws is to discern the great moral principles in them that justly apply to any age and society. The principles stay the same, but their specific application in terms of appropriate methods of justice and redemption from suffering can change with the times.

I hope this little bit helps. I will pray for your continual progress along the road to recovery.

Lots of love and sunshine,
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Hi ChrisChillin,

Thanks for your sweet explanation. This is much better. I understand that the laws at those times were different, but still it seems cruel. I notice here that people take the words of the bible literally and why should this be any different. The fact that a woman doesn't scream for help and was stoned to death makes her the accused as well.....as if she wanted that. With my personal story I just wanted to explain that it is not justice even in that day and ancient times. Those laws seem so unjust to me. The women may have accepted this as a punishment, but even when a rapist is punished today according our laws, it doesn't heal the survivor immediately. They suffer....I call it life sentence to explain that the victims are punish by the act of rape itself.....even if they do not show it to the outside world.

I talk with women and men on the web that are raped as well. They are so strong, but also deserve some compassion.JP might be correct, but his response to my emotional posts lack compassion (at least I don't see it....so it could be my fault). I am called a temporal provincinalist and a bigot because I reacted from the heart......that is unfair, I don't deserve that.

My rapists were never reported by me. I was too scared and too ashamed. I didn't cry out for help and I know people were close enough to help me, but I froze.......so these laws have a personal impact on me. And the only way to avoid myself from committing suicide is to accept the fact that I am totally innocent although I feel guilty. These verse from the bible express this feeling of guilt. All I wanted from JP is some understanding and not called these names. He is blinded by his faith, because he repeats the answers and does not reply from the heart...

All this is of course my own view on the matter and has nothing to do with JP as a person. I don't know him personally, but I will avoid him, because he has hurt me, even if it was unintentionally I have to think of me first in this matter.

Thank you again for your sweet explanation and it is really wonderful that you defend JP's intensions and POV's. You are the sweet person here, not me! I just wish he had done it.

I dunno.....like I said, it is my own stupid fault to even participate in these kind of discussions.....

Let there be sunshine on your roads in life, always

Lots of love and sunshine,
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Sigh....

I believe you are living in lala land, thinking that rape should be placed in that ancient time as something women "accepted".

Well, since Queen is ignoring me now, this is just for the benefit of defense. Read carefully:

It is NOT that the RAPE was accepted.

It is that DIFFERENT PUNISHMENT for rape was accepted and desired.

Queen's error is in continuing to assume that persons living in this day were sated by the same forms of administrative justice as she would be.

And where did you came up with words like temporal provinicialism?

The author Michael Crichton. In his book on time travel into the Middle Ages.

Me? You really don't know me.

I know what you argue, and that evidences temporal provincialism.

I think you are afraid of the here and now, because you know this law sucks in the here and now.

Hmm. So merely reaffirming your provinicialism is the answer? Isn't this contrary to what Queen says elsewhere about being glad people find peace in whatever they find peace in? What if they found peace and justice in this law (never mind considering how it was socially suited to the period)?

Why do you use a computer??????? Are you afraid to read it?

Are you grasping at straws by assuming that fear is behind every decision you don't like? What's to fear? I've stared down prison inmates. I've read their transcripts at trial and heard their stories. I've seen accounts of child molestation that would turn everyone here blue in the face. The point remains that personal accounts of modern persons has no bearing on the issue of how people lived and thought in 1400 BC. Not today.

but why should these women not suffer from the same symptoms.

Because psychology was entirely different. A broken leg is a very poor analogy -- the simple fact is that there were different forms of thinking and different ways of reacting to such traumas. A leg is not a human psyche.

Do you even realize how much of these people's time was occupied with just the question of where their next meal was coming from? There was constant danger from bandits, starvation, wild animals, disease, climate -- there was no time for introspection or "PTSD" to develop. The stresses they were under would turn all of us here into blithering idiots.

You use the same lame answers on your site....you don't speak from the heart.....that would be too difficult I guess

It would be too patently irreponsible. Speaking from the heart apparently equates here with not answering the argument.

And the fact that you make these survivors of rape ridiculous and belittle them

How, exactly? By noting that their stories are not germane to the question of social paradigms of the ancient world? That makes it "ridiculous" and "belittling"? It's clear that all that was done was looking for buzzwords, and turning adjectives into proper pronouns as below.

So I push the ignore button and wish you a good life.

In short, Queen cannot answer my questions. And then she asks Chris the same ones I have already answered. Hmph. So here is how it goes:

Q: "Those laws seem so unjust to me!"
J: "Well, they were not considered unjust because X Y and Z was so."
Q: (ignoring X Y and Z) "Well, those laws seem so unjust to me!"
J: "But you are not living in that day and don't even think as they did. Here is how they thought differently: A, B, C. Now what do you say?"
Q: (ignoring A, B and C) "Well, those laws seem so unjust to me!"

(repeat for the next 452 hours)

All I wanted from JP is some understanding and not called these names.

Did I call "names"? Let's see...

"In other words, you don't have any answer other than continued temporal provinicialism. Queen, do you value cultural diversity? Isn't it rather bigoted and presumptive to assume that just because you felt a certain way, all others thorugh space and time have as well?"

Did I call a name here? Or did I address specific actions?

He is blinded by his faith, because he repeats the answers and does not reply from the heart...

If replying "from the heart" involves distorting or ignoring the truth, then the heart is best left out of the conversation.

The story of dealing with the modern world. Good luck, Chris.

 
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The truth that there is a superbeing in space who made everything, and if you don't you'll get pitchfork somewhere you don't want it in the afterlife... That's truth because an old book says so...

Uh-huh, excuse my sarcasm, but I doubt you are in the same faith/religion as JP anyway, you sensible Christians out there, not someone who believes that punishing the victim is the way to go...

You were raped! You'll live with the rapist for the rest of your life, you'll eat and sleep with him, as a punishment to him! He obviously fancies you, and you hate him, so you'll marry! That'll teach him that raping isn't the way to get what you want, eh?

 
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Posted by Harlequin Solit on Today 05:04 PM:

The truth that there is a superbeing in space who made everything, and if you don't you'll get pitchfork somewhere you don't want it in the afterlife... That's truth because an old book says so...

Uh-huh, excuse my sarcasm, but I doubt you are in the same faith/religion as JP anyway, you sensible Christians out there, not someone who believes that punishing the victim is the way to go...

You were raped! You'll live with the rapist for the rest of your life, you'll eat and sleep with him, as a punishment to him! He obviously fancies you, and you hate him, so you'll marry! That'll teach him that raping isn't the way to get what you want, eh?
wow...you really make atheists look ignorant. :p

hmm...sorry...i guess all the negativity is rubbing off on me.

 
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And the only way to avoid myself from committing suicide is to accept the fact that I am totally innocent although I feel guilty. These verse from the bible express this feeling of guilt.
This shows that our sexuality is involved with the very core of our being. So naturally such a mangling would strike at our self worth. It must be terrible feel like commiting suicide, but now that you know what rape does to someone, perhaps you can imagine why it should be impressed upon girls to defend themselves in such a situation by whatever means possible including screaming. They should scream out of regard for their life because sexuality in so many ways is an issue of life and death.

Suppose you had an infant in your arms and a man came at you with a knife to kill your infant. If there were people nearby who could help only if notified, you would scream rather than try to protect something so valuable on your own. And How would we view the mother who didn't do everything to protect her baby?

A fallacy here is to assume that we are worth less than infants. God is no respecter of persons so we are inconsistent when we assume that a full grown woman is not worth as much. But that assumption is pronounced by the obviousness of the value of a child. You are that valuable person that you are charged with protection, and only for the sake of another should you even consider giving it up.

I don't see that you have to like that law but perhaps you could appreciate what it was for, to get girls to preserve something that goes to the very core of their being. And not doing so would be culpable. But if this sounds awful to you, there are two reasons. One is that you did not live in a culture that impressed the importance as gravely for you to protect yourself in such a way, as much bravery as that may have taken. For all I know, The people nearby may not have been the type of folks who would rush to the aid of a screaming woman (There was a real infamous similar case in New York were several dozen people watched from their windows as a woman screamed as an attacker proceeded to murder her. I can't recall the name of the case). Secondly, we are now in a much better situation. God has come down and has made his suffering evident in a radical way. So it was not only you that suffered in that grave circumstance, but God suffered with you ("for whatever you do unto the least of these..."). And we can find healing when we pour our suffering into the suffering of God ("by his stripes (wip lashes) we are healed"). But as long as we live in the flesh, such deep wounds will leave permenant scars, but they are scars that God has as well.

 
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I hope this proves to be consoling to Queen or anyone else who may have suffered the horrors of rape: God promises there will ultimately be justice. He will wipe away all tears; he will heal the broken-hearted. Things will be set right in the end.
I can think of no more heinous crime than rape. However, I'm also under no delusion that I have a higher moral standard than God. God hates rape. I think if we read the Bible in it's complete context and avoid isolating specific passages of scripture, we will see that the Bible makes this very clear.
Jesus paid the price for all of our sin, rapists included. Therefore God has suffered more because of rape than anyone (though I don't mean to minimize Queen's or anyone else's pain in saying this: I merely hope to make clear that God shares that pain in a very personal and intimate way).

 
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